Let's face it, we teach people how to treat us. The disrespect, the lack of support, the cursing you out...you taught that. Stop teaching people to treat you in ways that do not align with Spirit. When you are in a relationship whether it is a friendship or a romantic union, we are always teaching people how they can treat us. Sisters, mother-daughter relationships, marriages, etc., all involve people doing to others what they have been taught to do by that other individual. Looking back at all of my relationships in my past, people only did to me what I taught them by allowing them to do to me. What you allow is essentially what you are teaching people that they can do to you. Teach people correctly, you are worth it.
Relationships should consist of two honest individuals who are not afraid to put their truths on the the line. One should not be hiding behind lies in fear that the other person will not like or want to deal with them if certain things are revealed. Remember the old saying "what is done in the dark shall come to the light?" Well you need to shine that light and in a hurry. Masks are made for Halloween and Masquerade Parties and other artsy type things. They are not made to be worn to hide your true individual self in your relationships. There is nothing weak about expressing the truth of who you are in your relationships. Say what you mean and mean what you say. The truth will always come to the forefront and you never want to be looked at as a liar. Trust yourself it will all work out for the best.
As a Relationship Strategist and Women's Wellness Warrior I am here to assist you in creating healthy and fulfilling relationships with your significant others. Creating these relationships also means improving your relationship with yourself and Source.